tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4102281920228280161.post3632378739630132286..comments2023-06-23T01:13:22.474-07:00Comments on Mommy, the Actress: And the hits just keep on comingAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03723851593570176968noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4102281920228280161.post-7673337149990197562010-10-10T11:59:15.455-07:002010-10-10T11:59:15.455-07:00I am not taking down the above comment because I f...I am not taking down the above comment because I feel that this is a valid argument. I was myself surprised by the reaction because my initial point to the blog was MY handling of things and not necessarily HIS. I think when we feel hurt that we lash out and he is lashing out at me at the moment but (as far as I am concerned) my REACTION to his lashing out is what concerned me.<br />No one fully knows the facts behind what caused the break up of the marriage. HUGE mistakes were made on both sides and I do not in any way feel that this is all his "fault." <br />Thank you for your opinion and I hope you continue to support him and have his back. I am very fortunate to have a support system and I am glad that he has one as well.Samihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11744357241108397012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4102281920228280161.post-88447203581459166452010-10-09T20:14:07.145-07:002010-10-09T20:14:07.145-07:00I agree. You should absolutely get legal represent...I agree. You should absolutely get legal representation and work this out in the courts. Please do. <br /><br />Your recent history of entrusting your small children to the care of mentally disabled youth, infidelity, leaving your husband to live with another man, coercing your husband to stay in WA when his family and support system is elsewhere, putting your career before the care of your five children, etc. should serve you well in courts. I'm certain this is just the tip of the iceberg as there have been numerous relationships prior to your husband with a number of counts of severe carelessness with your "first batch".<br /><br />For those of you jumping on the "bully" bandwagon against her husband, you should take a more objective view of the situation and seek a factual understanding of the circumstances. I don't believe anyone should be bullied, and I find it baffling that her husband is the one being touted as the bully. He adored her and continues to defend her. This was his first marriage and his character/integrity have never been called into question. <br /><br />This should be handled privately and discreetly, but clearly one hopes to generate sympathy and understanding from those who are not aware of the circumstances. I believe this posting and many others should be taken down and the matter handled in private between husband and wife.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15513630089240109875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4102281920228280161.post-15949107866615135322010-10-07T10:44:02.705-07:002010-10-07T10:44:02.705-07:00*BIG HUGS* You can do it girl. Just borrow some of...*BIG HUGS* You can do it girl. Just borrow some of my narcissism and bitchiness and it'll be all good.<br /><br />I agree w/claustrophilia - HE isn't exactly going to look like Dad of the Year with all the shenanigans he's pulling involving the kids (or NOT involving the kids, for that matter). And dictating whether or not you can work is a NO GO in the State of WA since you are separated. Shoot, even if you were still together, he can't legally tell you you can't work!Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16270355836018279531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4102281920228280161.post-15726967714613747932010-10-07T10:18:11.011-07:002010-10-07T10:18:11.011-07:00There are at least five million things I want to s...There are at least five million things I want to say here. Most are unprintable. So I'll just stick to "I love you" and "You go, girl."<br /><br />*fierce hugs*Leigh Anne Vrabelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02632332469439007529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4102281920228280161.post-39781915668030610082010-10-07T09:25:44.112-07:002010-10-07T09:25:44.112-07:00I strongly suspect that this kind of bullying from...I strongly suspect that this kind of bullying from your ex might fall into some problematic legal categories -- for him and his custody battle, not for you. You should talk to Washington Lawyers for the Arts: http://www.thewla.org/<br /><br />They mainly focus on nonprofits and property disputes for artists, but they might be able to refer you to someone with sliding scale fees, or even chat with you for just a little bit about your concerns about how this divorce is not only affecting your family, but your career. <br />~NicolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4102281920228280161.post-90572293199973111882010-10-07T08:58:33.806-07:002010-10-07T08:58:33.806-07:00You can do it Sami! Fuck him! Change schools and b...You can do it Sami! Fuck him! Change schools and be proud of it! Document EVERYTING!!!! and that goes for recording agreements if you are in a public place. YOU CAN DO THIS!arhughes88https://www.blogger.com/profile/10342755844907057051noreply@blogger.com